Ask ArtSlut ~ Long Distance Relationships

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 The Question: Dearest Artslut,
Any advice on long distance geographically challenged relationships when attraction, lust and and basic human compatibility ie; food, common interest and sex, seem all to be in a great place??

Thanks,
Somewhere out there.

  The Answer: Hey, Out There!

 Thanks for the question. You really didn’t give me much to go on like: how did you meet? How much time did you get to spend together? Is this a committed relationship? There’s a big difference in the advice I would give to a couple that’s been together for years, versus people who met on vacation, for example.

However, in regards to relationships, I really believe that what’s meant to be will just happen naturally & no amount of pushing, trying, or anything else will matter. So, just be yourself & see how it unfolds. Know what I mean?

 Now that that’s said, if you’re looking for fun, silly things to do, I got the answers: How ’bout taking pictures of yourself in drag, in weird places & sending them, glued to a postcard. You could also set up a Wordpress blog (their often free & easy to use), to keep a running journal of your voyages. You can send area specific, specialty foods, & btw: jewelry is never a bad idea… These are just a few random thoughts, but you can find a lot more info like this in my book (available right here, on this site!). So, check it out!

Happy trails, Babs

One Response to “Ask ArtSlut ~ Long Distance Relationships”

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   December 10th, 2008 at 6:13 am

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